of this type are offensive to the vast majority of people. Really, its not like the person on the other end of the message is going to publicly reject you, and youll never have to see this person in real life if nothing comes out of your attempt. Whether youre approaching someone at a bar, a party, or online, putting yourself out there can be an awkward and scary experience, even for people who are naturally outgoing. Show everyone that theres more to life, and theres more to you. The best way to approach a first message is to keep it in friend territory.
"Were aiming to help users do better than average, and are thus showing examples of the types of things that do better than a generic opener Karen Fein, Hinges vice president of marketing, told The Huffington Post. If youre taking 30 minutes to write that many characters, youre overthinking. This helps to show how youll relate to them and that you have something in common. This one kills two birds with one stone. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below.